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Ron and Daryl Bourdeau posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 2, 2020
Pete and Connor. Just learned of Coles passing. So sorry for your loss. Your in our thoughts and prayers.
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Charline Farrell posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 2, 2020
I am so very sorry to hear about your loss, Pete and Connor. I was Cole's piano teacher for a few years and I can attest to his phenomenal musical talent.He was also one of the sweetest, kindest, funniest, most interesting persons I have ever met. I hope all of your memories bring you some comfort in the days ahead.
With sincere sympathy,
Charline Farrell
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Ron and Catherine Day posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 1, 2020
I remember when Travis was first born and Cole used to come over and enjoy spending time with our new baby. He was always trying to make Travis smile. Our deepest sympathy to your family and Cole's friends.
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John and Terri Warren posted a condolence
Monday, August 31, 2020
Pete and family.
We are very sorry to hear of the passing of your son.
Are thoughts are with you.
John and Terri Warren
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Sarah Nascimben posted a condolence
Saturday, August 29, 2020
My condolences to family and friends. Although I didn't know Cole for a long period of time, I'm so grateful that I got to speak to Cole many times. He was so helpful to me when I needed to talk to someone while I was dealing with the passing of my father. He gave me so much guidance, laughter, and friendship during that time. I really just had so much fun with our deep chats and appreciated so much of his jokes, and all the many Seinfeld references and even getting to hear him practice his music a few times. I'm so grateful for that. Thank you, and wishing all family and friends lots of love and healing.
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Maureen Hastings lit a candle
Saturday, August 29, 2020
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With our deepest sympathy.
Maureen, Peter and Nick Hastings.
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Hugh Sinclair posted a condolence
Saturday, August 29, 2020
Pete ,Connor and family:
My thoughts are with you at this difficult time.
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Saturday, August 29, 2020
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Got to know Cole when he was a customer at my cafe at Laurier. Then later he came to work on my food truck. We spend many many hours talking, joking, sharing and a bit of working. Cole helped me build my deck last year and somehow we managed to jam 16 12ft deck boards into his little car. He loved to help. I will miss him dearly. My condolences to his family and friends. RIP buddy
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Lisa McDonell posted a symbolic gesture
Friday, August 28, 2020
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We are shocked and saddened to hear of the passing of Cole. I worked with him at Home Depot for the brief time he was there. He always was a storyteller and no matter what time in the work day had everyone laughing. He became part of the “group” and even if you had not seen or talked To Cole for months his reply when invited to a party was an automatic yes. These were some of his exact words .....I’d love to go!! I’m there!! .....Oh I’m sooo there!! ....See you then. You could always depend on Cole with his humour and humble state of mind he never let us down. On one occasion he was asked with being the talented musician he was to play the piano for a small intimate Xmas party and he did fabulous totally set the whole mood of the room. Over the years his music talents were enjoyed by our “group” on several occasions He will be missed our condolences to the family. Gone way too soon.
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Linda Tait lit a candle
Thursday, August 27, 2020
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Peter, and Family
My sympathies to you and your family,
Many years have passed since we were together, at reunions and functions.
In my thoughts and prayers.
Warmest Regards,
Cousin, Linda Tait and family
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Scott Robinson posted a condolence
Thursday, August 27, 2020
I'm very sorry to hear of Cole's passing. I worked with him at Sysco since he joined and he was always friendly and genuine with everyone. He was a dedicated worker and from what I've heard twice so a friend. He will be missed by many. My condolences.
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C. Frank Doyle posted a condolence
Thursday, August 27, 2020
Pete, I am very sorry to hear of the loss of your son Cole. I did not know of Cole personally, but I understand he was a very gifted and charming young man. It is hard to know what to say at times like these. I offer my condolences to you and your extended family. From C. Frank Doyle.
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Elaine lit a candle
Thursday, August 27, 2020
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Pete we are so very sorry to hear about the loss of your son. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers .
Elaine Frederick & Family
Eleanor DeBresser posted a condolence
Thursday, August 27, 2020
My deepest sympathy to Pete and family at this very sad time.
Eleanor DeBresser
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Cristina Perini posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 26, 2020
I had the pleasure of teaching Cole when he was in my Grade 10 Careers class at UCC. Besides being a bubbly, talkative, super genuine, highly intelligent, happy-go-lucky young man, what struck me most was how determined he was to succeed in life. He was a true go-getter from a very young age. He orchestrated a job shadowing visit for himself with a university professor and had full support of his parents to see this endeavour to completion. As a new parent, Cole (and inadvertently his family) taught me life lessons that semester. After working with Cole, I knew that I too wanted my son to have this same fire in his belly to take on the world and have an awesome support network behind him. Gone way too soon.......he will be missed......my sincere condolences to Pete and family. Cristina Perini
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Pam Brooks posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 26, 2020
Our deepest sympathy for your loss of your son Cole. Your family and extended family are in our prayers.
Pam and Brian Brooks
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Lori Martin posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 26, 2020
Dear Peter
So sorry to read of the passing of your son Cole.. Sending prayers to your family during this sad and most difficult time.
Lori Martin
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Christine Chacon posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 26, 2020
Peter, Connor, Jessica, Ashley and Janet,
I am deeply saddened by the loss that you and your family have encountered. I was so blessed to be able to care for Cole as a young boy. He was always kind, humble, appreciative and he was wise beyond his years. I will always remember how cute he was at 4 years old when he would swing on the swing while singing his little heart out to “As Long as You Love Me” by The Backstreet Boys. His mom and I often discussed how romantic his young words were. I will forever be grateful for all the memories and for the joy that he brought into our home.
He was so special and will never be forgotten. ❤️
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KimPierce posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 26, 2020
Dear Pete, Connor and family:
My deepest sympathy to you and your extended family. At times such as this words just don't seem to be enough. Nonetheless, I pray you are comforted by the expressions of love and prayers from those around you. May you sense God's presence holding you close, giving you the strength to endure this sorrowful time. Cherish your memories as they will keep Cole close always. You're being thought of and prayed for.
Respectfully,
Kim Pierce.
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Karly VanPuymbroeck posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 25, 2020
Pete and Family,
We are so very sorry for your loss of Cole. We are keeping you very close in our thoughts. There are no words that are perfectly right at this time. Just know we care and are thinking of you.
Karly VanPuymbroeck (Duane and Karen’s daughter).
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Cindy Sylvestre lit a candle
Tuesday, August 25, 2020
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My Sincere Condolences for your loss.
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Dugal + Faith MacKellar posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 25, 2020
Pete and family
So sorry to hear of your son's passing. Thinking of you at this sad time.
Dugal + Faith
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Pete & Deb Muller lit a candle
Tuesday, August 25, 2020
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Cheryl Doher posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 25, 2020
I was blessed to teach Cole English twice. He was such a positive influence in the class and always took time after class to stay and chat. He often thanked me for the class; that was the kind of person Cole was. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. The whole Lancer family is holding you close during this difficult time. He is playing his beautiful music for his Mom now.
Cheryl Doher
UCC
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Tuesday, August 25, 2020
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I had the pleasure of being Coles manager for the last two years. More than that he became the best, most genuine friend I've ever had. When I tell you he loved with his whole heart that would be an understatement. He genuinely cared about everyone around him. He was the team counselor, coach, comedian and star. He put every ounce of blood sweat and tears into his job and relationships. He created strong bonds and impressive rapport with everyone he spoke to. Often times customers would call looking for Cole because speaking with him brought a bit of light to their day to day. A break to chat, or just to make them laugh and forget about work for a brief moment. Cole taught me a lot about myself, compassion for others and to be humble. He proved the importance of staying true to your values, who you are, what you believe and never changing to appease those around you. He was an extremely talented musician and I will forever miss listening to him play guitar and sing. Rest easy my friend. My deepest condolences
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Colleen posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 25, 2020
Pete and family, I am very sorry for the loss of your son.
Colleen Crow
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Dave Cattoor posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 25, 2020
Our thoughts and prayers to all of the Mills family. We we never forget the great memories Cole gave us musically and the friendship he had with the band. So sorry for his loss. Dave and Lori Cattoor
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Dr. Heather Taves posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 25, 2020
As Cole's former piano professor, I am devastated to hear of the passing of this talented, generous, and outgoing young man. His former classmates at Laurier will miss him deeply. Cole lighted up the class with his wide-ranging performances, improvisations, and ideas. He was also a caring and gifted mentor to younger music students. All my sympathies to his friends and family.
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Cheryl Shaw posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 25, 2020
Pete and Connor: My deepest condolences to you both, and the rest of the family. I will always remember Cole and Sarah getting into trouble together, and playing dress up for their "wedding" or just walking down the road together hand in hand when they were only children. If there is any comfort, I believe he and his Mom are now reunited and I miss them both. I could never asked for better neighbours while our kids were growing up. Take care of yourselves and the family. Hugs to everyone.
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Mary Anne Hodgson posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 25, 2020
I was Coles grade one teacher. I have vivid memories of him sitting in my classroom with a huge smile on his face.
My sincere sympathy to his family.
Mary
Anne Hodgson
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Patricia Forster posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 25, 2020
I got to know Cole when he was the 'star' of our last school dance production, while he was in grade eight. His role was as a reporter. He did an amazing job. What I remember most is that, after one of our shows, he was helping to clear the stage and pack things up. My mom had come from Ottawa to see the production. She and Cole were chatting, and he was so respectful, kind, and sweet to her. She was so impressed with him. I was, too. I am grateful for those months of rehearsing lines with him, and getting to know his generous, beautiful soul. Rest softly, dear Cole.
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Elizabeth Young posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 25, 2020
My heartfelt sympathy to Peter and Connor. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Marianne Stirling posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 25, 2020
My sincere condolences to Cole's family at the loss of such an amazing young man. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Trisha Quinlan posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 25, 2020
Cole was a mentor to my grade 9 English class. He was always thoughtful, kind and encouraging to all of the students. They were so much better for having him as a mentor and I was blessed to have him. He always had a kind word for everyone. My deepest sympathies to his family and friends.
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Tuesday, August 25, 2020
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Thankful for our friendship and great times in the orchestra together. We'll miss you lots.
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